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Period-Do not avoid Telling Your Child about It

Educating your daughter about menstruation in some way or the other will strengthen the mother-child relationship.

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The word ‘Period’ and the situation that happens during these times to youth creates a little fuss for them, and specially when they do not feel like discussing the matter with anyone specially their parents. Mostly the thing surprises and actually feels to most girls as if the worst thing on earth is happening to them, and many of them clearly do not know what it is. So, it feels dirty, very dirty! What next, should I tell my mom? How could I? I do not know what it is! Moreover, how could I approach my mom for it, it feels bad, it feels dirty.

The situation at parent’s end when they see their child growing, they definitely come to know at some stage specially with the changing moods and behavior of their child. This extremely sensitive coming of age situation needs special care, attention from parents, and in case they are unable to educate, and counsel their child about this, it may cause critical problems. This may damage the sexual attitude and behavior; it could turn in to strong negativity and aggressive behavior if not attended in time.

How to Inform:

This matter does not require a formal meeting with the child. You have to approach your girl tactically regarding this matter, not making it feel special or enthusiastic about it. Keep it as normal and natural as possible could be of great help.

According to Dr. Sangeeta Agarwal, children are very curious, they will come up with something, and parents should not ignore their questions or shrug them off. When your daughter is reaches age ten, it would be fine not changing the channels when the napkins ads pops up. Expose them to sanitary products casually while shopping in the market and also let them know where these garments are kept. The basic concept is to kill the dirty myth and the aura of shame around this topic. Deal it like a matter of privacy but not secrecy. Delve into the details in an indifferent manner, tell your daughter about pregnancy and child birth by letting the health magazines left at home in reach of your daughters.

Educating your daughter about menstruation in some way or the other will strengthen the mother-child relationship. Let them know about symptoms, tell them about ovulation cycle.

Let Him Know

Let the boys know about these situations as well, it will help them grow up, a man to man or a father son talk will be the activity required here. Let your boys understanding towards women a little stepped up. If they understand sexuality, better and positively it will surely help during pregnancy periods of their wives when they come across that situation. They will not think their partners dirty a few days in a month.

It is advisable to keep the hygiene practices going as usual and specially in these times, do not avoid washing and bathing, encourage your girls to bath and change their napkins at required intervals within some hours.

Paul Morris is an entrepreneur, consultant and author. He is an advisor at Xpert Automation, a tech-based business incubator focused on scalable startups, and founder of ContentFy.

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The Hidden Health Benefits of Walking

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Need another reason to get up and get moving? New research has discovered that longevity is just one the benefits of walking every day. Let’s explore the hidden health benefits of walking.

Couch potatoes, beware: Being sedentary is twice as deadly as being obese, according to a study published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition.

“Humans were designed to move, and not moving is a direct threat to health and wellness in the same way that smoking tobacco is,” says Matthew Beekley, Ph.D., associate professor of kinesiology at the University of Indianapolis. “Many scientists believe that being sedentary should be considered a disease in itself.”

The proof is in the probe: Over a course of 12 years, British researchers collected data from 334,000 men and women. The participants’ height, weight, waist circumference and level of physical activity were all tracked. The findings revealed that those who engaged in exercise that burned between 90 and 110 calories per day reduced their risk of early death by up to 30 percent. But before you sign up for a marathon (although, go you, if that’s your thing!), some perspective: That’s the equivalent of a daily 20-minute brisk walk.

“Doing just a bit of physical activity every day will yield substantial health benefits,” says Soren Brage, Ph.D., co-author of the study and leader of the physical activity epidemiology program at the University of Cambridge. “If you manage to do 10 to 20 minutes on top of the initial 20 minutes of walking, you would see additional benefits.” Brage credits this to the perks that exercise provides, like lower blood pressure, lower blood glucose and lower fat around the organs, which leads to a decrease in diabetes, cardiovascular disease and certain cancers.

But it’s not just a fast-paced stroll around the block at lunch that will help you go the extra mile towards good health. As long as you’re burning those 90 to 110 calories during the activity, your body is lapping up the benefits. Here, Beekley and Brage offer a few other fat-zapping ideas:

  • Skip the elevator and hit the stairs for 15 to 20 minutes.
  • Do jumping jacks, jump rope or skip for 15 minutes.
  • Cycle at a lower intensity for 30 minutes—it’ll get your heart rate where it needs to be to feel the burn.

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Helping your child succeed in school

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Some simple rules allow parents to find their place to accompany the student without invading it.

Freud himself had warned: the profession of “educating” his children? “Impossible”. Since the beginning of the century, the situation has hardly improved for parents. There is even talk of “parental burn-out” about those who, wishing to do well, are literally exhausted – and in the evening, after completing their own day of work, multiply their efforts so that their child Succeed well in class.

Why so much interventionism? Threats of unemployment or decommissioning for future generations; Increased competitiveness from kindergarten; The perpetual questioning, for decades, of the school institution which is struggling to reform itself; The proletarianization of the teaching profession … One would have to be deaf and blind – or dangerously indifferent – not to feel the pressure inviting us to be more and more present with these students who are our children. But have not been trained for this, what can we – at our level – really do to help? To achieve this, parents now have to take on several roles.

• In “coaches”: create the context favorable to the study

Psychologists, now often asked by disoriented parents (almost 80% of the requests for consultation are linked to a problem in the school), all seem to agree on a first point: to the adults of the family he returns first To create the context conducive to learning and the balance of the child. “These are often filled lifestyle of common sense rules that we are led to remember, keep the child psychologist Alain Braconnier, who has just published The Child optimistic . Family and school (Ed. Odile Jacob). Before, we had to treat children with mental disorders, now we have to take care of those who are doing well, but we are afraid they can go wrong or multiply the failures. ”

In this quest for the “balanced” child, parents are to be regarded as “coaches”. Through their lifestyle, they can in fact set up certain habits whose benefits are known: a varied diet, a sporting activity, an artistic practice … The extracurricular fields allowing the child to develop potentials serving him indirectly in class. But now, new issues must also be taken into account.

Problems falling asleep and night wakings are found in 10% of 6-12 and15 to 20% of teens, and parents have to convey a real education for sleep, basic tips every day, “the bed will remain a Space of calm and repose where one must neither eat nor study, continues the practitioner; We will learn to locate the physiological signs of entering a new sleep cycle; To create a space for relaxation before nightfall. “It is now necessary to reduce the sleep debt suffered by many students in the classroom and which, of course, affects their ability to concentrate and memorize.

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Directly implicated in the sleep deprivation, the use of screens and new technologies . We now know that there is no question of demonizing it, of preventing it, but that it is important to regulate it. Parents know how to recognize the great utility of the internet: when the child seeks, surfing from site to site, information for a homework or sharing revisions with other students … But to them also to give a framework to this use Which, otherwise, proves devouring: no screen lit one hour before going to bed; No SMS during the family meal … Each has to set the limits that suit the personality, the age of his child … and each member of the family. Another argument favorable to “technological” moderation: children need time for daydreaming, boredom, emptiness … to learn better then. “Even when he is not working, the brain is active,” recalls Prof. Francis Eustache, chairman of the scientific council of the Observatoire B2V des mémoires. But it needs to be at rest – what is called the “default mode”. The moments when our children can wander their thoughts, “memories” without being hyperstimulated are very important because they allow them to step back and integrate in a different way all sorts of information. “In the same spirit , Many researchers and psychologists now recommend to introduce young people to relaxation or meditation.

• In preceptors: strengthening the child’s desire to learn

Then there is the question of school learning itself. To what extent can parents, who do not have to play “teachers”, transform themselves into truly helping repeaters for their children? The support that can be given to young people must neither destroy their ability to be autonomous in their work nor diminish their desire to learn … A vast field that new methods (positive pedagogy, positive discipline, workshops ” Empathic education “…) aim at advancing at best, because working at home is too often the occasion of conflicts and tensions in families.

“Some adults then enter the balance of power with the child observes Béatrice Sabaté, a clinical psychologist and trainer in positive discipline . They want the young person to do what they want and become “controlling”. Others, on the contrary, do in his place or resign, abandoning him totally. Nothing works because neither of these attitudes helps to develop the feeling of being capable in the child. ”
The solutions? Give meaning to work and study, particularly separating them alone “results.” Charles Martin-Krumm and Ilona Boniwell, researchers in positive psychology, revealed in their book For motivated teens (Ed. Odile Jacob) many discoveries in positive psychology helping parents to adopt the right attitude to encourage motivation, curiosity and perseverance of young people.

In the foreground, drop the policy of the carrot (“if you have a good note, I buy you a new iPhone”). Research has shown that if an initially motivated student receives rewards to carry out the activity, it will gradually tend to dissociate these two indicators from the behavior and to consider the external reason as more pregnant than the internal reason. In other words, it will gradually perceive that it is no longer “at the origin” of its actions and that what causes or regulates its behavior is outside itself. Result: the child learns only to receive good points, not to satisfy his curiosity. This may then be depleted.

Another motivating factor is changing the child’s mistakes and failures. “In order to satisfy a student’s need for autonomy, he or she will be asked to find ways of correcting his or her failures,” explains Charles Martin-Krumm. And we will value the process of learning by trial / error. “By allowing the child to fail fails to feel bad about the failure and reinforces in him spirit of initiative and Progress.

• As parents accompany their child without invading …

Regarding homework, professionals like Béatrice Sabaté encourage – as well as for sleep, by the way – the establishment of a “ritual” working upstream with the child: how much time to devote to homework ? Before or after the snack? Based on reading / re-reading or writing cards? “Too many parents focus on outcomes and does not seem interested in the learning process and the steps it entails,” says the ambassador of ” pedagogy of encouragement .” The challenge is always to show his attention to what the child is experiencing, his own curiosity about where he is and how the knowledge he acquires will help him to live better in the world.

Attention … seems to be the key to the current parent-child relationship, and it is not only limited to school work. “Adults caught up in the guilt of not being available – because of their work, or a blended family life … – are struggling to maintain the guidelines, to set a clear framework for young people, observes Dr. Alain Braconnier . But they should never forget that the child needs an authority that protects it. “

Protecting the child means, among other things, anticipating: preventing drift before even having to punish. “It is at the very moment when we offer him the console in 3D that we specify the schedules to which he can play there on school days,” notes the child psychiatrist. It is also to identify ill-being before problems arise at school. Charles Martin-Krumm thus invites parents to hear some pessimistic generalizations of children as signals of low self-esteem (“anyway, I’m null!”). “The process can then be stopped by recalling that a note to a control is only an assessment made at a given time, or to refer to other, more positive, results obtained elsewhere,” the researcher writes. And, of course, we will not forget to celebrate success when they arrive … but without over-valuing them! “If you tell your child that you are proud of him only when he has good grades, you are questioning the simple pride you can draw from having a son (or a girl) like him ( Or she, “warns Charles MartinKrumm.

This form of attention is also not “overprotection” of certain parents baptized “helicopter parents” in the United States because they do not “let go” of their children from a sole and so … they do shade. Sometimes, the right attention is inspired by having recourse to a third party (boarding school, student for homework, shrink …) and to renounce being almighty to his child.

Finally, parents will remember that much of the education is done by impregnation and imitation. As far as transmission is concerned, they will therefore always have great advantages in bringing their attention to themselves and their own behavior.

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9 in 10 young people think that they will succeed in life

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OpinionWay survey conducted at the initiative of Auteuil Apprentices shows that 92% of young people have confidence in their future, particularly professional.

Despite the prevailing political and economic pessimism, a new survey on youth and success published by Apprentices of Auteuil reveals that 9 in 10 young people think that they will succeed in life, and especially on the professional level.

A real hopeful and optimistic message

Conducted among more than 1,000 young people aged 16 to 24 to the 150th anniversary of the association, the survey OpinionWay shows that young people are still very optimistic about their future, despite the fact that 76% of them believe that the current environment is less favorable than that of their parents. Far from being disillusioned, 92% of young people surveyed think it will succeed in life.

“They tell us they have faith in the future, despite the challenges they face today They show great lucidity It’s a real message of hope, but also a responsibility.. To us not disappoint them! Auteuil Apprentices pays particular attention to the most vulnerable young people, “says Nicolas and Trowel, CEO of Auteuil Apprentices.

Graduates still more want to leave France

Professional success: first success factor
In 1020 young people questioned, the first success factor is to “have a fulfilling career” (62%), just before “have a happy family life” (60%). The more materialistic criteria, as does “make big money” (24%) come largely after.

But what are the keys to this success? For 16-24ans who responded to the survey, self-confidence (45%) and involvement in work (33%) are the first means of success, followed closely by the ambition (25%) and courage (18%). The diplomas (16%) and relationships of all kinds (15%) are not essential for a successful professional life.

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Earth’s Geological Past Can Give clues for Future Climate

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One aspect that is under a lot of research and poses a lot of threat is that of climatic changes. Scientists and researchers from all over the world are trying to understand this phenomenon so that necessary steps can be taken and adaptations can become easier. It is often said that if you want to unravel the mysteries of your future you need to take a look at your past. Climate and earth is no different. Many scientists have come to belief that the key to the secret of climatic changes of earth lie in the past.

Recent studies show that the most reliable way of making predictions about climatic changes and understanding them better lie in the geological past. According to Dr. Wan Yang, the formation of rocks would give answers about a lot of questions related to climate. He went on to elaborate that with different climatic conditions, the soil types and vegetation’s also vary. This can be used to understand the climate and also predict the future of this phenomenon.

To come to this conclusion, he studied in northwest china as that is the only place that has preserved the record of ancient land from as far as 200 million years ago. During that period, earth witnessed mass extinction. Scientists believe that the reason behind the eradication of these species is climate. Many theories have been presented on the matter but so far no definite cause has been established as to what led to the death of so many species. The theory that is considered most substantial at this point of time is that during this period the climate of earth witnessed a change from being icehouse to greenhouse, this was reversed around 30 million years ago when icehouse once again took control

The truth is there is little evidence on the matter which is why scientist is looking at every possible scenario to unravel this mystery. If we hope to prepare ourselves for the future, we need to understand it and most of the time the answer to future lies in the past.

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Ambush Hunting By The Dinosaurs

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Although now completely extinct, dinosaurs still manage to surprise humans in a lot of ways. Paleontologists today, are busy finding the different fossils of dinosaurs. They have found some fossils of very huge dinosaurs and some as small as the pigeons. Recently a Canadian Chinese team reported to have found the fossils of a dinosaur that actually looked for its prey like a cat because it was the same size. These cat type hunting techniques are called ambush hunting techniques.

These dinosaurs are called Sinocalliopteryx and they only extended to a length of 2.5 metres approximately. Yixian Formation in the Jehol Provence of North East China has very efficiently managed to retain and preserve the remains of these dinosaurs. The researchers very effectively isolated remains of two crow sized birds called Confuciusorni and a smaller dinosaur covered with feathers from the remains of a single Sinornithosaurus. This discovery lead the scientists to believe that the dinosaurs of these smaller sizesfed on flying animals including lizards, smaller dinosaurs and mammals.

These dinosaurs skillfully carried out ambush hunting by lying in wait for the desired prey. These dinosaurs were good observers and very patient during their hunt. They used to observe patiently while lying in the bush and when they observed that the prey is taking a low flight, they leapt at the prey with a very strong grip. This is typical ambush hunting. Many animals are ambush hunters usually but with dinosaurs it is a new concept since nobody ever thought of the hunting style of the smaller sized dinosaurs.

In order to pounce on the predator at just the right time and place, these dinosaurs were naturally equipped with long muscular legs and very sharp teeth for chomping. A prey once being gripped by these dinosaurs could never free itself. However there are some other scientists as well with a different point of view. These scientists such as Prof Zhonghe Zhou of Chinese Academy of Sciences emphasize on the theory that it is not necessary that all these small sized dinosaurs follow he ambush style of hunting. Some of these dinosaurs are scavengers instead of stealthy hunters.

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10 most haunted places around the world

10 most haunted places around the world

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Here are 10 of the most haunted places of the world.

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1) The Beechworth Lunatic Asylum, Australia: Abandoned asylums, creepiest places ever, and Australia has a good one. The Beechworth Lunatic Asylum — originally named as Mayday Hills Lunatic Asylum — is located in Victoria, Australia. It was a mental hospital from 1867 to 1995. With 1,200 patients living there, about 9,000 patients died in its history, and there’s little doubt those souls are haunting till this very day. Visitors can take a nighttime ghost tour, only if they wish.

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2) The Princess Theatre, Australia: In Australia, the Princess Theatre, which is haunted by a ghost named Frederici. According to the myth, Frederick Baker or “Frederici” was an Italian singer who died on stage in 1888. He was finishing a performance as Mephistopheles in Faust when a trapdoor dropped under his feet and he fell beneath the stage, dying from a heart attack. For many years, the Princess Theater saved an open seat for Frederic at every opening-night performance.

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3) The Bhangarh Fort, India: So you’re not scared yet, try the Banghar Fort in the Alwar district of Rajasthan, India. Which was built in 1573 and is a ruin of several temples, palaces, and smaller living units.
According to legend, the fort became cursed when a wizard who lived in the town fell in love with the princess of Banghar. With his black magic, he tried to get the princess with a magic potion. She figured out the scheme and threw the bowl. It hit a boulder which was disturbed enough to start rolling, and it rolled right in the path of the wizard. The wizard cursed the town saying that it would be destroyed and become uninhabitable. Soon after, the town was invaded and pillaged. Most of its inhabitants, including the princess, were killed. Those who survived abandoned the fort.

The wizard’s curse remains, and the ghosts of those killed continue to haunt the fort. The Archaeological Survey of India, forbids anyone from staying at the fort after dark.

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4) Aokigahara, Japan: At the base of Mt. Fugi, its Aokigahara, Japan’s globally famous Suicide Forest. Hundreds of people came to this forest to kill themselves amongst its dense trees, local police do annual sweeps to clear away the bodies. They no longer declare the number of bodies discovered because those numbers actually encourage suicides. In 2004, 108 people committed suicide there. Signs around the forest placed by local police beg suicidal visitors to reconsider: “Your life is a precious gift to your parents” and “Please consult with the police before you decide to die.”

Many people believe that the forest is haunted by the souls of those who died there. Others point to a different haunting origin. According to one legend, during times of famine in ancient Japan, families couldn’t feed themselves. Some would be abandoned in Aokigahara, where they died of starvation. Those ghosts haunt the forest today.

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5) Iulia Hasdeu Castle, Romania: The lulia Hasdeu Castle, built by Bogdan Petriceicu Hasdeu in Campina, Romania after the death of his 19-year-old daughter, Iulia. Hasdeu dedicated the castle and the rest of his life to lulia. He became a practitioner of spiritualism to reconnect with her, and designed one room in the castle solely for the purposes. Its walls are all black. Iulia still haunts the castle, walking through the courtyard in a white dress and playing the piano each night.

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6) Hellfire Club on Montpelier Hill, Ireland: The Hell Fire Club on Montpelier Hill was built as a hunting lodge in 1725 and became a gathering place for a small group of Dublin elites who met for wickedness and devil worship. Tales of animal sacrifice, black masses, cloven-hoofed men, and murder surround it. Another popular destination for tourists and ghost tours.

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7) Manila Film Center, Philippines: The Manila Film Center is reported to be haunted by the ghosts of workers killed during a tragic construction accident. At 3 a.m. on Nov. 17, 1981, scaffolding at the site collapsed burying about 169 workers in quick-drying cement, alive. No rescue teams were allowed at the site for nine hours. Reports differ on just how many workers were killed, while several bodies remain entombed in the structure.

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8) Dragsholm Slot, Denmark: This castle was built in 1215 and in the 16th, 17th century parts of it were used to house prison noble or priestly rank. It was rebuilt in 1694 and is thought to house at three ghosts: a grey lady, a white lady and the ghost of one its prisoners, James Hepburn, the 4th Earl of Bothwell.

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9) Raynham Hall, United Kingdom: Raynham Hall in Norfolk, said to haunted by the “Brown Lady”, so named because she appears wearing a brown brocade dress.

The Brown Lady is thought to be the ghost of Lady Dorothy Walpole (1686-1726). She had an affair with a local lord. According to one story, her husband discovered the affair and locked her in their home at Raynham Hall. Another story claims that it was the wife who somehow managed to arrange her entrapment. Either way, Dorothy was locked up. She died and her soul was freed to haunt the castle.

The Brown Lady has been spotted many times, first in 1825. The most recent sighting was Sept. 19, 1936, when a photographer for Country Life magazine snapped an iconic photo of her.

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10) Château de Châteaubriant, France: Ending with another story of a woman locked in a castle. This one’s from France. The Château de Châteaubriant was built in the 11th century. The haunting dates to the 16th century with the story of Jean de Laval and his wife Françoise de Foix. King Francis i asked de Laval to assist him at court and Françoise joined him there. She also became King Francis’ mistress. She died on Oct. 16, 1537 under mysterious circumstances. It was rumored that de Laval had learned of her affair and locked her in a room until he could poison her. Now every year, on Oct. 16, Françoise haunts Château.

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Practically speaking women have to shave their whole body which makes it a wobbly statement to number of females as they recall unpleasant memories of nicks and cuts and plenty of bad jobs all over the body.

Most of ladies depend on this hair removing method as it is thought to be the easiest and least painful of all others, which is a matter of fact if done well. Inappropriately, most of the times the results are less than acceptable complains about crummy shave jobs that the edges of their dresses and skirts catch on the legs, quite irritating though.

Shaving is something that one has to do and it is the biggest time waster I know! This is why we are here to reveal all the little secrets about shaving to give the closest and smoothest shave. So if you have been having trouble shaving and you don’t know what it takes for a smooth shave, Check out these tips:

Shaving Tips and Tricks

RAZORS:

Gillette Sensor Excel for Women razors is good, so always use razor blades designed for women.
Change cartridges frequently
Be sure your razor is sharp!

Don’t use your man’s razor

SHAVING CREAMS:

Use shaving gel for sensitive skin
Use shaving cream if you have coarse hair
Use shaving cream that lifts hair up prior shaving

BEFORE YOU SHAVE:

Soak your legs for about 3 minutes in warm water before shaving.
Exfoliate your legs with an AHA or grainy substance (sugar). This gets rid of dead skin that may clog up razor, hence allowing it to glide.
Apply a conditioner on your legs while shaving. This gets your pores to open up and the hair to get softer.

WHILE YOU ARE AT IT:

Very important, shave gently and slowly with razor against hair growth. Always keep your legs in the bathtub while shaving to relax and see carefully what you are doing. If you do it standing you are going to hurt yourself.
MOISTURIZE followed by shaving with a non-irritating balm.

To conclude, to have your shave right, the skin should be damp before the shaving, so do it after your warm shower. The razor you are using must be sharp and must be made for women.

Do not shave without a shave cream or gel. To avoid a bad shave, never shave while you are standing as you will never be able to see what you are up to in that position. Always Pull the skin tight and shave in the direction of the hair growth, this will not give a very close shave but it will help avoid the red bumps that appears after shaving.

Leave a conditioner on your legs to work while shaving as this gets your pores to open up and the hair to get softer. Once completely dry; use pure Aloe Vera to sooth the skin, followed by rubbing baby oil into the skin to sooth it and protect it.

After few hours, wash it off using anti-bacterial soap. Remember to give your skin a break, so a day in and a day out will be a good idea.

Now you are ready to wear all the silk and flowing skirts you want. So shave away and enjoy smooth and beautiful skin all over.

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Treat Your Child Gently

Scolding your child or telling and taunting him each time he commits mistake is not an advisable thing.

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You know your child need a lot of teaching and manners. You do not find his current behavior, attitude or etiquettes as you like, so you think about teaching him. Parents want their child to be perfect, they like him to walk well, sit and talk gently, and of course remain clean and look nicer. Besides these basic things, no one likes his child to fell in unhealthy or bad activities or company.

The very important thing in this regard is the treatment you give to your child when making him learn something you want. The treatment should be nice and gentle. A child need attention and care, he/she need to be told carefully so that he could naturally grasp the learning, in other cases many children shows repulsive attitude when they are ‘forced’ to learn anything.

Discipline Your Child Effectively

Scolding your child or telling and taunting him each time he commits mistake is not an advisable thing. It neither yields results as seen and observed in most of the cases. Do not let him/her rebel your teachings by teaching him with love and empathy and following certain guidelines.

-Do it yourself first, children try to follow their parents, you need to throw the wrapper in the bin, cover your mouth while yawning. Get them habituated with what you do, they will definitely follow you.

-Do not slap them ever. Discuss with them politely if they do something wrong in public place, try to teach them with reasoning later on without insulting them at the spot. Sometimes if they do not listen a little stern behavior or walking away for a while from them may be required. Slapping or abusing verbally will result definitely result in some kind of aggressive attitude by your child, and he will not learn from it.

-Involve your children in their decision making process like while doing shopping for them, let them choose the color and clothing by themselves.

-Avoid screaming or using harsh words in front of guests, tell him strictly to mend the behavior after returning home.

Let your child know that you wish him to improve certain kind of things in him and do not disapprove him as an individual.

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Warning Signs in a Troubled Marriage

Every couple needs to know about various signs that show their marriage is in danger due to these situations and they need to fix the situation in order to save their marriage.

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Are you aware of the warning signs that may further cause trouble in your relationship? Marriages normally break for various reasons, some may be stupid and resolvable or avoidable, and some may be serious enough that need counseling. The experts suggest certain signs that may cause some trouble later on in relationships.

Every couple needs to know about various signs that show their marriage is in danger due to these situations and they need to fix the situation in order to save their marriage.

Here is a list of some signs and situations, tackle them gently.

  1. Calling bad names to in laws quite regularly and belittling them, discussing about the pasts more often.
  2. When the couple start fighting on small matters and it converts in to bigger fights for no reasons at all.
  3. Not discussing matters properly before taking decisions, or avoiding joint decisions. When both of you start trying to prove your point aggressively as a matter of ego.
  4. Not sharing and taking in to confidence. Avoiding discussions and taking suggestions on different matters.
  5. This is another sign of trouble when spouses do not think like our family, instead his/her approach becomes a my-family approach and behavior.
  6. Start cheating one another or any one of the spouse indulges in extra-marital affairs. This is most of the time an un-pardonable mistake and ends relationships very fast.
  7. Not taking interest in having sex with each other is another sign of a breaking relationship.
  8. Not resolving matters immediately, avoiding to solve issues while sitting and discussing matters together.
  9. When you both are left with no topics at all to talk with each other.

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